How to Choose a Family Law Attorney

Finder Law Serves Clients Across Jefferson City, Columbia, and Central Missouri

October 1, 2023

Choosing a family law attorney to represent you in a divorce is a decision that should not be taken lightly. Divorces are a stressful, emotional process, so choosing an attorney that is both experienced and caring can help make the ordeal easier. There are several qualities you should look for when making your choice to hire an attorney.


Integrity

The first quality is integrity. This is a quality that should be possessed by any respected attorney. Our legal system is based on integrity, so this is crucial. You want an attorney that will be honest with you about all aspects of your case- not just its strengths, but also its weaknesses. If someone is promising you an unrealistic result, this is probably someone you should avoid. Having an attorney that can be practical and realistic about possible outcomes is of great value. A good attorney will be honest with you about concerns they have regarding your case and should give you advice on how to handle or overcome some of those obstacles.


Diligence

Secondly, you want an attorney who is diligent. Divorces take a lot of hard work, so your attorney should be someone who asks good questions, listens carefully to you, and shows support, empathy, and care. They should also be able to answer your questions and ensure that you understand the information they are giving to you. Your attorney should be someone who works aggressively to represent your needs and protects your interests.


Communication

Communication is another key quality to look for in a good family law attorney. Regardless of the size of the firm, you should expect to be able to communicate with your attorney regularly and have your questions and concerns answered. The best attorneys have excellent communication skills and know the value of keeping their client informed of the status of their case.



Creativity

No two divorces are the same, so each case must be handled uniquely. You want a creative attorney that can come up with new, original strategies to handle your specific needs. Divorces can also change often and abruptly, so having someone who can think through innovative ways to handle the ever-changing landscape of your case is essential. 



Experienced

Finally, you want to hire someone with experience. Family law is an area that an inexperienced attorney may have trouble navigating because of its complexity and sensitivity. And despite one’s legal education, there are some things that can only be learned in legal practice. Your attorney should be someone who knows the other attorneys and judges involved in this system and has their respect. That will likely allow them to negotiate more effectively and increase your odds for a better outcome. 


If you find yourself in need of a divorce attorney, reach out to Daniel Finder at Finder Law. He knows how challenging this process can be, but he has the experience to walk you through this process effectively and compassionately. We are a premier law firm, dedicated to listening to our client’s needs and concerns. You’ll receive personalized legal advice from someone who will aggressively fight for you and work tirelessly to support your interests. 


Call us today to schedule a consultation and get started on your case.

This blog is for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. For specific guidance, please contact our office directly.

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